What have you guys found most helpful for maintaining erections?
I had horrible PED and deathgrip.
Pills couldn’t overcome my PED.
The solution that seems to be working for me:
-I’m finally with a lady who’s wonderful and empathetic. We’ve had many conversations about my issues and she’s totally on board with helping.
-I still take Rugiet but considering weaning myself off. (Less anxiety allows the med to work!)
-I was really up front about my issues and this app has helped me ID some ways she can help- she’s no longer nervous in bed. I’ve suggested she be more vocal, kinda naughty in telling me what she wants. (Takes the anxiety of guessing out of it for me!)
-I got pretty good at getting her to cum several times during foreplay/oral/fingering. (If she finishes a few times before my boxers come off, the pressure to get hard is less. She’s usually pretty satisfied before we try sex…
-We keep it light during sex- we both joke a lot and make it fun.
-I was on this app religiously for a few months, I did all the exercises, I keep up with Kegals & reverse, but most of what has helped was reading all the topics Hera and responses.
Understanding my issues has greatly helped me in overcoming them. (Deathgrip seems to be a lot harder to overcome tho….)
Good luck man!!