Connecting with someone in an intimate way, being vulnerable but not judgmental.
Giving pleasure in whatever way and form feels good to the other.
Intimacy
Trying out different things besides just penetration
Bringing my dirty kinky side out without fear of being embarrassed
Being desired for who I am not what I should be
I dont know
Sex is being aroused with one another and being in a confident state to make love
Being dominant without making her feel like an object.
Being aggressive and as dominant w/o fear of being too aggressive or predatory
Bonding and connecting. Sharing my needs without feeling needy. Feeling comfortable with how I take care of my partner
hanging in bed with my girlfriend, relaxed and aroused, touching, exploring her body, her turn ons, her doing the same to me
Having no inhibitions in exploring sex
Intense sensual feeling like extacy euphoric clarity like commiting the perfect crime and got away with sensation of it
Two people flowing as one, the most intimate connection you can make
I didn’t have sex until middle age and I want to travel in time and have sex like my friends did when we were 18. I’m 53.
Sex is the whole moment of sexual acts and experie ces you go through with your partner. You may want to aim for pe etration, but it doesn’t need to include it, as it includes a wide range of tools and games to use.
Sex includes showing we’re the objects of each others desire, flirting, affirmation/ confidence building words. touching before we get to the bedroom like a butt tap or dick grab, seeing each other naked after a shower and showing some appreciation… there’s more included in the lead up than I thought before I started writing