Connecting with someone in an intimate way, being vulnerable but not judgmental.
Giving pleasure in whatever way and form feels good to the other.
Intimacy
Trying out different things besides just penetration
Bringing my dirty kinky side out without fear of being embarrassed
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Being desired for who I am not what I should be
I dont know
Sex is being aroused with one another and being in a confident state to make love
Being dominant without making her feel like an object.
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Being aggressive and as dominant w/o fear of being too aggressive or predatory
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Bonding and connecting. Sharing my needs without feeling needy. Feeling comfortable with how I take care of my partner
hanging in bed with my girlfriend, relaxed and aroused, touching, exploring her body, her turn ons, her doing the same to me
Having no inhibitions in exploring sex
Intense sensual feeling like extacy euphoric clarity like commiting the perfect crime and got away with sensation of it
Two people flowing as one, the most intimate connection you can make
I didn’t have sex until middle age and I want to travel in time and have sex like my friends did when we were 18. I’m 53.
Sex is the whole moment of sexual acts and experie ces you go through with your partner. You may want to aim for pe etration, but it doesn’t need to include it, as it includes a wide range of tools and games to use.
Sex includes showing we’re the objects of each others desire, flirting, affirmation/ confidence building words. touching before we get to the bedroom like a butt tap or dick grab, seeing each other naked after a shower and showing some appreciation… there’s more included in the lead up than I thought before I started writing
Sex includes the exploration of desires. It involves the building of a sexual tether, allowing two (or more) people to explore and enjoy curiosity. It involves slow, thoughtful, playful behaviour that gradually leads into a passionate, but enjoyable, scene and ends with pure ecstasy and happiness.
What appeals to my present sexual personality is the earnest desire for a PARTNER. I want an attractive, sexy, fun-loving girl, to explore the world with me by day, and warm my bed at night. If the result is a penetration, I would welcome it as a divine miracle, and only hope my partner was pleased, too. If it resulted in one or more ejaculations (by both of us, one hopes), that would be wonderful. On the other hand, if we just cuddled and talked softly and intimately, that, too, would be something to celebrate.
I want to change my definition of sex to include more than just penetration. I want to be comfortable with finishing and not feeling like I’ve ended the night early because of it, I want to be able to enjoy finishing instead of it feeling like my body letting me down and then be comfortable to own it and let me partner know how amazing she is and let the night continue in other ways. It feels so often like a let down when I finish early and I would like the script to continue beyond that, ejaculation shouldn’t be the goal it should be part of the journey