Sex is an exciting and rewarding exploration of our bodies
My definition of sex is no holds barred mutual pleasure with lots of variety and pushing of boundaries between two people who really, really like each other. It involves lots of fun and touching and communication between two people who are in synch. It ends when both parties are satisfied, and with lots of intimate touching and chat. Then there spend the rest of the day telling each other how wonderful the experience was.
It’s like stepping into an alternative reality. No work, no commitments, no mundane chores. Just the single minded pursuit of sexual pleasure. Giving and receiving in equal measure. A temporary escape, in other words.
Sex that is enjoyable even I can’tger hard or last long
Mutual pleasure, losing ourselves in the moment and each other, no time for judgement
Sex is pleasure that involves erogenous zones
Trying different positions for utter satisfaction, I dominating for a while and she dominating at other times
A mutual, reciprocal, pleasure based activity
Full-body contact, patient, accepting exploration of love and desire for each other free from expectation that each participant’s every want and need will be met every time but aspiring to meet each need in the aggregate
Mutual desire and shared pleasure that forms a bond and connection.
Trying to have sex and only penetrating slightly still counts
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Intimate play
Or rather, play for the sake of erotic pleasure
It’s a mental game. It’s turn-ons and fantasies. It’s taboos and kinks. It’s exploring desires and experiencing everything you want to experience. A lot of the time this has nothing to do with the sex itself - it’s just exploration of the mind and everything that’s in it
For me it’s that dark, forbidden place, it’s control and animalistic, it’s taking my wife and making her mine. Then taking in every part of her
Observing my partner changing and in different outfits or naked and different positions from different angles, also watching her receiving pleasure from me or by herself. I’d like to be able to do that without feeling guilt or shame that it might be considered creepy. Also full body contact and a long, sensual and passionate foreplay. Luckily, my partner is super open and even encouraging me to watch her and let her know about it
Because of that I’m slowly getting rid of the feelings of guilt and shame
Erotic contact whether that includes the bodies touching, or something more mental, psychological
Opening myself to admiring the female form without guilt. My religious background has made it a “sin” to admire women in that way. Taking off my partners clothes, with consent in a sexy way, both parties touching and kissing all over our bodies, watching each other play with ourselves, sexy text messages or calls without that same guilt, enjoying the moment and letting it build.
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Enjoying myself and relaxing while being in tune with her pleasure and feeling connected with her
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