i want to quit cold turkey, and disperse that energy a different way. instead of searching up porn i wanna be productive, whether it’s a hobby or anything else
I don’t want to use it as a way to procrastinate at work. I want to seek out other ways to self soothe and be more balanced as an individual
Use it as a way to achieve quick climax
I do not want to use porn as a distraction or break from work any more. I want my use of porn to be a journey or a relaxing time and not something I am just squeezing in because I have a spare 5 minutes. I also want to be more comfortable with accepting what I watch is okay and good enough for me.
I want to start using it in a healthier way and so far I have used to just when I’m bored, not even horny. I’ve done it so much to cope with not having a partner (or wanting one since I had just broken up with my ex) but doing that for over a year changed me and I want to begin using it and jerking off in a healthier way and not feel guilty about it or compare it to the real deal which is so much better. I also have recorded my own videos with others and want to figure out how those affect my abilities if at all and how to use that better.
I need to know if it’s causing my issue with ed, if so, I would remove it completely if necessary
I want to cut back on the frequency of use, and edging for hours on end
Reduce drastically. Yes I feel it is a ‘catch 22’ more stimulation means more aroused in general, but yes, I feel it desensitised both the visual and touch sensation for the real thing. Did it in the shower the other day, and think that is beneficial, as our say, vary it up…
Want to know if it the cause of my ED so that I can stop it
I want to be able to incorporate it more into my relationship, and find other avenues like the stories.
I want to be able not to watch any porn to get aroused
It increased my edging. Personally I think it is the root of my ED, so I’d like to reduce it drastically (once every few months type of deal).
Stop it from making me ejaculate quickly
Not to use it when I’m just bored
Less often
I want to reduce its consumption and stop watching it compulsively
I want to stop compulsively consuming been cold turkey for a week going to maintain that for a a long as I can
I want to be able to be turned on by more than just a couple of genres of porn and by other mediums aside from video based content. I would like to watch non judgementally and enjoy the eroticism of the moment despite my past preferences. To see the hotness in any scene, within my tastes of course.
Less compulsively and less extreme
I want to consume it way less often, and try instead to rely on physical sensations