I’d like to not pmo to relax on the regular
I don’t want porn to be the only time I’m confident with my erection
Years ago I watched porn every day and then I realized that I got addicted because I always wanted to come and feeler board. But I changed completely and not watch porn at all anymore
I have really stabilized my porn consumption lately and feel I engage with it in a healthy way these days.
I want to keep being in intimate living environments which mean I don’t think about watching porn.
I want to avoid being in intimate agreements where I feel my desires to intimately connect with others are being repressed.
When I am on my own and want to masturbate for whatever reason, I want to use scenes from my own brain and videos/images sent my partners - not porn.
I want to recognize when I’m drawn to masturbation and porn watching as a relaxant. I want to surf that energy somewhere else - be that capturing the day, or reading in bed. However I need to think more about this.
Be more comfortable with it, and feel less guilty. Stop using it as a reward for when I fail with women.
Honestly I’d like to just not partake. I am a lucky man, and have a beautiful wife who loves sex most of the time. But I’m not sure not using porn totally is sustainable. I know I need to stop using it when I want to procrastinate, am board, or just stressed. It’s too much. Then when my wife is in the mood, I’m worried I’ve blown my load…. Literally and figuratively. I think for now, I’d just like to use it less and not so much as a default stress reaction.
I want to stay off porn completely forever. This app’s attitude toward porn seems inaccurate and outdated. One only needs to read the book “Your Brain on Porn” to realize porn, at least modern high-speed internet porn is incredibly damaging to the reward centers of the brain.
I want to watch porn that is more realistic. I want to feel better about myself after watching it.
I want to stop watching it for now
Honestly I almost want to use it more. Confident here. Never been a big user of porn, although I often am curious and like to check out weird kinks for fun.
Watch just when im horny. Not everytime im alonr.
I want to watch a different kind of fantasies rather than the ones I am using for years and I want to limit my usage a bit so I feel less guilty about it I also like to watch some intercourse cause I ccannothave it now and I do blame porn for it sometomes
Recently I have associated watching porn and masturbating with a lot of guilt. If I know I’m seeing someone in a few days for sex, I tend to say to myself ‘you can’t wank now coz you’ll stop yourself getting hard when you go and meet her’ and when I cave in and masturbate I immediately feel guilty and that I’ve now ruined my chances of getting hard when having sex. I need stop associating masturbating and porn watching with so much guilt and negativity around sex
Recently I’ve associated porn and masturbating with a lot of guilt. If I know I’m seeing someone for sex in a few days I’ll tell myself I can’t masturbate or I’ll risk not being able to get hard when it comes to sex. Then when I eventually cave and have a wank to porn I immediately feel guilty and like ‘I won’t be able to get hard when it comes to having sex tomorrow now’ like I’ve ruined my chances. I need to stop associating porn and masturbating with such negative thoughts about sex and erections
i want to cut down or even stop or try and get aroused by more than ine type
Stop hopping between videos every minute and focus more on my own pleasure rather than just the visual stimulation (which is not bad, just I want to be more in tune with my own body).
And if I’m not horny, I don’t want to force and it and just jerk it harder to force myself to cum. It’s about my pleasure, not just completing the routine!
I don’t really watch porn, but I do look at hot women on instagram more than I should. Perhaps this has caused me to create unfair comparisons between them & my wife as a turn on.
I would like to stop using porn as a coping mechanism. I think I’d still like to watch if I’m feeling aroused or like having fun, but I feel I should stop watching when I am feeling down and depressed. I’d like my sexual state to be one focused on fun and enjoyment
I want to:
- Be more aware / less compulsive, thus be more conscious about my objective (eg: relaxation)
- Alternate porn with masturbation without porn, relying on my own imagination.