I love it when my lady friend uses her tongue to lick up and down my shaft and frenulum and then uses her large breasts on it too and as she gets to the tip she licks it and takes into her mouth for a bit. This also provides her with lots of pre-cum that she loves to lick up. It always feels amazing
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I really like the long soft tongue licks. Inside the mouth there are often too many angles and hard parts and it gets uncomfortable for me
I love the long kicks, starting with my balls, the up and around the tip, then later swallowing the entire shaft if she can
Soft and slow
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I think eye-contact is not enough mentioned as part of blow-jobs, honestly 
I LOVE when there are moments when my partner looks up at me when they’re doing all of this, with a smile on their lips tongue out. 
I can’t be the only one who loves that 
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Two words, flesh light
I think my being accustomed to my hand for the longest time is what messed me for sex for a long time.
It might be a bit of a kink, and it’s only something for a brief moment … but anyone else like it when their partner looks up at them and very gently flashes their teeth or even give a gentle love nibble to the tip making the skin of their nose crinkle?
Something about this looks super hot to me, but just like a brief instance of it.
Otherwise, as I mentioned before, eye-contact in general, I think is amazing when receiving oral.
Variety always helps - switching between mouth, tongue, and hand helps keep sensitivity up. Going slow always feels amazing, long slow licks or going deep slowly feels best.
Variation in pressure and speed really helps, and it’s not often the fast strokes in a jerking motion feel best, it’s actually the regular rhythm and pressure that feels best for me. Also, use the testes! While they’re riding you, or in doggy, or giving you a blowjob, festival stimulation CANT be understated.
Yikes! Kicks in the balls? No thanks.
Variety is key, understanding what areas are more sensitive and don’t stick to only one spot, find others and keep the mojo up
Once your partners dick is completely hard. Deep throat them, keep it in your throat and shake your head slightly so he can feel his dick rubbing the inside of your throat. It’s great practice to get a better gag reflex too 
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Part of helpful communication for me is to show or watch how someone masturbates. A quick tutorial to understand the pace/speed that you like and vice versa, and then translate that to the pace used in oral sex.
I often like a firm grip around my shaft with one hand while I’m getting head and the other hand gently pulls my balls downwards. The combined pressure feels amazing.
Enthusiasm
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Like the small slow lick presented first
Get really lubed up, use the palm of your hand and place it over the head with a cupped hand, no fingers, apply gentle pressure and circle the head. Feels super intense so only good for a sec or two
Something that has always worked with my partners is extending the frenulum tapping into also stroking the urethra. To do this I place my hand around the penis and using only my lubed thumb I stroke in circles around the frenulum and up the urethra. Boys usually go wild with this move cause it gives them a new sensation of pleasure that most people haven’t felt before
stroking
I’ve had head from some girls that sent me and I have no idea how they did it haha