I’m meeting a guy I really like tomorrow and I know he likes me and I’m so worried that it might lead to sex and I will disappoint him by not being able to get hard. A big part of me wants to cancel and then make excuses and avoid him but I know he’s a really special guy and I’d love to date him. I wish I didn’t have this issue it’s such a barrier to my happiness.
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Hey good luck tomorrow! Have you considered just talking to him about your fear of disappointing him?
I’d bet he has similar nerves as well.
Talk. A conversation about this in a secluded cafe will be way less embarrassing than when you’re naked….