Trouble staying hard with a new partner

I got out of a long term relationship (10 years), and recently started seeing another girl. She’s gorgeous and we both really like each other.
When we tried having sex, I got issues with the staying hard as soon as the penetration starts. Otherwise if she’s dry riding, or blowjob, it’s hard as a rock.
I don’t understand what’s the issue. She’s amazing and actually very a very horny person, lol, why can’t I stay hard?
Before her I never had this issue with previous partner, and I haven’t had sex for past 1.5 years before this new girl.
Is this performance anxiety? Did I built it too much in my head?

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