While eating her out include a few licks starting at the anus moving all the way to the clit. See how she reacts you might be surprised
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they should’ve said the instructions that the skin on the inside is extremely thin and sensitive and delicate and you have to be really careful because it’s very easy to accidentally hurt the person
Plenty of lube. We both love a thumb in her ass in doggy. I love to be rimmed - her enthusiasm is a huge turn on - and pegging can be fun but I’m not as good at taking it as she is!
Anal sex i don’t find as arousing as regular sex but fun to experiment with on occasion,oral play is good giving and receiving although i feel s bit self conscious when receiving at first, its not nessarsary if my partner is not enjoying givingnas much as receiving. I definenetly enjoy playing with her sphincter during doggy and slipping a thumb in from time to time with no nessasary expectation of it going further in that direction, just as added stimuli
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I have enjoyed in the past but my current partner is not really into it
I’m mixed with this.
I don’t like being anally penetrated, per se. I do like orgasming with anal penetration though. That is, I can’t orgasm solely from penetration or feel especially aroused by it. I like outside anal stimulation though. Analingus and massaging the perineum feels amazing. I don’t feel at all comfortable asking for it though.
Giving anal pleasure is very arousing for me. It’s the taboo nature of it, the dirtiness. I love a woman who orgasms from anal sex, even though it doesn’t feel as good as vaginal sex for me.
I’m obsessed. Who doesn’t like a tongue on their ass? I need a gal who likes it in all holes😛 I keep finding chicks who say they like anal and when it comes down to it they puss out. Cmon now!
Tease the anus with my cock pushing gently. Rubbing it up and down
I tell them to sit on my face. I let them ride me, so they control how deep and how fast I lick. Otherwise, I draw the ABCs with my tongue, rub my beard gently over the hole, and try to get my tongue in there as far as I can.
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Communication is #1 in anal play, both because of cultural taboo and the ways you can hurt or be hurt by your partner. The best part about communication is it helps ease tensions and a relaxed sphincter is a penetrated sphincter. Also, rimming/being rimmed is amazing. Have done it till my tongue hurt the next day 
Only anal.massage for me… nothing more…
I was so excited she was fresh out of the shower, was giving her oral, and I slid my tongue to the anous area to see her reaction, she didn’t say anything but I could see she liked it, as much as I did
I like it less than my boyfriend does, especially with rimming some people are really into it. When fingering, start you can stretch the sphincter by applying some gentle pressure circularly - at 12,3,6,9 o’clock before inserting a second finger. Use loads of lube! Preferably silicone, unless using toys
Used to like it but had some yucky incidents. I want to keep trying cause my girlfriend likes it but I also don’t want shit on my face or finger
Anal play is my fetiche. It gets me extremely turned on. It felt really challenging telling her about this years ago, but it grew on her when she saw how much it turned me on. I’m not 100% comfortable with having her rim me even though I love the idea, but having her massage my sphincter while I masturbate during foreplay or when I’m on top of her gets me so rock hard I can barely handle it for a few seconds. It’s definitely worth a try to be open with your wife about this if it’s something you feel like you’re into.
I just penetrated a new partner with my penis today. It took 2-3 cracks at it she was very tight and I lost my erections. I kept with it doing the breathing and staying in the moment exercise and wound up having mind blowing dual orgasm.
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It’s a new area. Done anal sex before but never much playing other than fingering.
My partner and I both love anal play. She particularly likes to be penetrated very slowly, getting progressively deeper and expanding. We start with one finger and build up to a whole hand. It’s very sensual for her and extremely relaxing.
It’s been awhile, but anal-adjacent touching and stimulation is brought in at the most intense moments
Slow