The butt discussion thread: How do you approach anal play?

I am gay, I can really teach you thoroughly how to do all of this :laughing:

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Recently came out to my wife as bi and has allowed me to explore this side. Rimming is such a naughty & pleasurable thing. I’ve even got my wife to perform it on me.

Love a good anal leak but she doesn’t feel comfortable

Haven’t done anal

Prostate Massage isn’t all that bad. For my wife I like to use my tongue and massage, she hasn’t really worked into wanting penetration, which is fine. It’s all about what everyone is comfortable with.

Eat a women’s ass is one of my favorite foreplay.

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I start by eating her ass out. Once she’s into it I insert a finger and penetrate her. I finger her ass until she cums.

Just stick a finger up there whilst theres two in her vagina already lol

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Im exited to try It, never got anal

I wasn’t much into anal. When my wife and I were dating we dabbled lightly with fingers but no real penetration and a little licking here and there. Moved away from it when we were focusing on starting a family. Now I’m looking for new ways to increase blood flow and stimulation and for me I want to try prostate orgasms with my wife. External stimulation of prostate is no issue I want to figure out how to best have her use fingers more into anus or rim me (and I can’t wait to explore her ass with my mouth too) but trying to ease her into new moves without it being too much of a shock.

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I’m gay, so anal isn’t too new it’s about trust, consent, and constant communication. There’s and awareness and vulnerability that makes sex feel extra racey with a good partner. Excited to try prostate massaging from the outside!

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Typically not on the first encounter, except I will sometimes do non-penetrative massaging, especially during doggystyle vaginal sex. Or if they ask for a finger/anal penetration. I’m open to receiving it, but it’s not a priority. If someone is excited to try it on me I enjoy it, but It’s not something I’d ask for.

I really enjoy rimming and stroking them at the same time

Rimming

All things anal are fantastic, rimming my (female) partner gets me incredibly turned on and for myself it feels great wearing a plug during any sex, still exploring pegging and always excited for the chance to practice

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Rimming is underrated!

I’ve never tried it. Might try if things get stale

Anal play is amazing and everyone should try it more than once. The first time is quite tense for most people. Learn to relax and enjoy the sensations.

Also for first timers, keep your nails short and don’t use freshly cut nails. They’ll be sharp even if they don’t feel it to you!

Not just then, try it anyway !

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Me too - genuinely didn’t realise that was a way to do it… :frowning:

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