The butt discussion thread: How do you approach anal play?

revolutionary-brown-sloth · April 10, 2024, 3:37pm

I have a few hangups about it even though I am very sensitive there. I fear I will go too crazy if someone fucked me in there. Ss far as fucking it, I don’t always want the domination trip, but maybe it would be cool to have it. She seems ooen to everything

conscious-peach-mockingbird · April 10, 2024, 5:53pm

I had one partner that loved a finger up her butt while I was giving head but my wife hated it. Definitely very polarising.
Not sure I could ask someone for anilingus, I’d be very worried they’d get shit in their teeth!

multiple-tomato-python · April 12, 2024, 1:38am

I don’t

uniform-jade-dormouse · April 12, 2024, 10:34am

Just exploring this with my lady. It seems to slowly entering fun time! New to it completely.

causal-sapphire-marlin · April 18, 2024, 5:45pm

Anilingus by far. To give and receive

foreign-gray-hawk · April 19, 2024, 4:08am

Get them turned on. Lots of lube. Small butt plugs and silicone lube to start. Have patience, go slow. Make sure she has an orgasm at some point so she gets rewarded. Lots of compliments, tell her how amazing it feels, how hot it is. Don’t be afraid of poop if you want anal play.

royal-brown-mule · April 25, 2024, 5:49pm

Only ever tried with a finger rubbing on the outside during penetration. Kee to explore more

renewed-salmon-goose · April 29, 2024, 8:42pm

I have done a bit of anal play. Not too much, recently I have done anilingus to some of the women I am going out with and they seem to enjoy it very much. I will try some of the techniques here.

temporary-black-kiwi · May 15, 2024, 5:36am

i love eating ass, my partner says it aint her thing but damn i love eating ass. yes make sure she’s clean in their (of you if you’re being tasted), i’ve never had smelly butthole but i’m glad whatever butthole i’ve had is always clean. enjoy it, no one is gonna have fun if it is going to feel like a chore for you, eat it like leftovers you’ve been waiting to eat once you get off work.

comparative-silver-orca · May 23, 2024, 8:20pm

I’ve received, never given. Need to give it a shot one time after shower.

supporting-chocolate-squid · May 25, 2024, 1:05pm

As a gay man, my absolute favorite form of foreplay. Make sure not to just focus on the rosebud the entire area is sensitive. Take your time

colorful-beige-smelt · June 21, 2024, 12:42am

I wanna try it

local-tan-junglefowl · June 26, 2024, 6:24pm

I’m open to experimentation! If she’s into it I’ll try anything!

nuclear-black-raccoon · July 11, 2024, 12:10am

Love rimming and definitely want to try the prostate massage

established-violet-panda · July 16, 2024, 9:53pm

Licking around and tongue going in and out. Teasing by stopping and starting to build anticipation. Be guided by and pay attention to the size of the moans to know whether they like it or want something a bit different.

naughty-blush-woodpecker · July 18, 2024, 9:10am

Will start touching with fingers and eventually try annalingus

quick-coffee-goat · July 21, 2024, 9:01am

I love to give it to my wife

causal-salmon-hyena · July 25, 2024, 10:53pm

I like to give my girl anal and I like to lick her ass. And I enjoy when she rubs my butthole while she sucks my dick

olympic-purple-stoat · July 27, 2024, 9:58am

When in doggy, my lady loves a bit of pressure on her asshole. Lick your thumb, apply come pressure and swirl it around a bit back there. Slowly apply more pressure- she may like some insertion- my lady loves it.

sensible-white-lark · August 1, 2024, 12:43pm

Just a fyi for the straight men. Was straight for 40 years and recently found myself attracted to men. and more than anything,
I wish my wife would have rimmed, fingered and massaged my prostrate long ago. It has been a huge turn on and is a mar part of my sex life now, and wish we had tried it long ago.