Slowly. I make sure my partner feels clean and ready. When she’s super horny I’ll lick her anus.
I’ve not explored with a partner, but on my own I’ve found anal play (fingering, inserting a toy, vibrations) to be tremendously pleasurable.
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still havent learned to completely relax and enjoy receiving anal
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Not something I’ve tried yet
While it turns me on I know it isn’t my wife’s thing so I worry bringing it up will make her shut down
I usually rub across with lubed single fingers before moving to rim and penetrative.
I pretty much do the same with analingus, usually after warming then up with muffin diving or BJ first
While rimming is one of m fave, I really like how some toys a made specific for this. And they are great when I am having issues getting hard. I’m very visual in my stimulation, so playing with toys on them, now that I know what I am doing, has been great to get me up, and get them there.
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The rim of it all is the key. Spending a lot of time there, especially with fingers is a great way to relax the guy while it feels great all at once.
Gotta star incorporatin this
I don’t, I need to start doing it for my partners
Love ass. Is great for me. Clean is best
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Nothing is allowed to touch my butt I have psoriasis there. End of story
Prostrate massages while getting a HJ were the best. Don’t attack it too early, and of course ask before going to the area. Just wait until relaxed and fully erect. It should be hard and full then start lightly stroking or scratching that area with fingertips and you’ll have one of the best orgasms of your life. This was sometimes better than sex to me although I didn’t want to admit it.
love giving and receiving but have to be ready to take it lol
I don’t get any butt play myself but more like on the woman being able to lick the hole and massage the area during doggie style
With this, and the other two tutorials, I already knew most of this info. I used it on my last few partners, some intuitively. Teasing, warming up, raising their arousal.
Most of my recent partners (last 2-3 years) never gave me the same grace. They treated me like I was supposed to spring into action like a dildo. Didn’t touch my chest or thighs or anything, maybe just my arms. So this is helpful. But it made me feel a bit sad. I’ll have to choose my partners more carefully and communicate better.
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Anal play isn’t for me personally
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i haven’t really delved into anal play yet. would love you give it a try tho
Doesn’t seem appealing to me
I lov anal play, it can b mind blob it sometimes just playing with the hole is enough, for those who say it’s it for you, I would encourage you to try it once, sometimes societyimplies only gay people enjoy but I know straight guys that love it