My problem has typically been keeping an erection through to the time my wife is physically ready for sex. Long story, but due to cancer treatments putting her into early menopause, penetrative sex can be painful, and was actually impossible until about a year ago. It takes a lot of prep before she is ready for intercourse. I love going down on her and making her cum, but sometimes my erection will subside and it’s very disappointing not to be able to penetrate and cum inside her when she’s actually turned on and ready for it.
Well, this weekend was a success on a small scale. Rather than worry about losing my erection, I just stayed in the moment, concentrated on my breathing, enjoyed going down on her and giving her a hell of an orgasm, and after that I was still hard enough for penetration. It wasn’t a raging hard erection, but it was enough to get the job done. And it felt wonderful to cum inside her. Looking forward to the next time!