I can stay hard during handjob, oral etc. but struggle during sex to stay hard with a condom on, hate condoms but girlfriend can’t use other contraception due to doctors advice. Any advice how to stay hard during sex, I love it but the condom blocks the sensitivity and I loose boner
Yea I’ve got one- try to reframe how you see the condom. Look at it as a kinky tool to get into sex. You can look at the condom as this kinky device that lets you last longer in bed so you can’t cum as easily, and make your girl more pleasured. Reframe how you think about the condom. I used to relate, but now I still stay hard with the condom because I think of it as “time to fuck” and “time to pleasure her and last longer” due to the slightly less sensitivity. It’s all in your head, you can get and stay mega hard with condoms, but you have to change how you view the condom.
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Thanks man, will try that!
This is a great idea I will try the same. I am with a new partner for nearly 2 months now, she knows I use Cialis and is fine about it. But starting to wean myself off and lower dosage. The condom thing for me is the biggest issue due to losing erections lots in the past. Your suggestion is gold
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I have also heard that masturbating with a condom on, on your own, can help with this