I’ve been using app for about a month for PE and still don’t have much control but I have discovered 1 “technique” I’m not seeing talked about. Basically I hold kegel as hard as I can after point of no return but before orgasm. Ejaculate still ends up building up and dribbling out but the kegel stops the orgasm.
Without the orgasm, I stay hard, and it takes longer for me to cum. It’s kind of like a “round 2” in terms of feel, but no refractory period.
Curious if there’s a name for it or if anyone has tried this?
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I do it all the time while I workout i stretch and squeeze my kegels as long as i can but I haven’t been doing it for awhile so I lost some control but it really does work
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I would say that is a type of edging using those muscles rather than squeezing it off with hands. You can try again on the 2nd round for 3rd - it gets pretty intense.
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How exactly do you do a kegel squeeze?
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Imagine you are trying to stop yourself from peeling. That’s the muscle you are using. It connects to the base of your penis and around the anus.
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I have a question about this … Sometimes it works and I can keep going for how long I want to after the first intial orgasm , but sometimes my erection goes away after holding in my kegal muscle to prevent me cumming. Anyone experience this, or have a way around the erection going away when you do this technique? I don’t believe in taking Viagra and all that shit
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I have the same thing I’ll stop myself from cumming only to go soft seconds later. Maybe it’s the over thinking part where it’s like “oh no now I can’t get hard again what will they think of me” kinda spiral.
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What do you mean initial orgasm? In my case, if I actually orgasm, I’ll have to face refractory period. But with what I described in post, ejaculate “leaking” but no orgasm, I’ll stay hard as long as I keep the stimulation going. However, I’m almost certain if I were to stop the stimulation for even 15 seconds I’d start going soft.
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Yeah I’ve found doing this in mojo wax n wane is pretty intense - you can go to what you describe here - leak prior to orgasm and then go totally soft and do it again - quite fun. That is in a masturbation session rather than partnered though.
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