Is it wrong to want to get sex toys and use them myself while in a relationship with a woman, I have cock rings I used to use on myself and they felt really good but I would leave them on for too long. I also have a vibrating butt plug that I haven’t been able to use on myslef but I have been interested since I ordered it. Someone let me know if I’m in the wrong for trying some new stuff even though I haven’t told her.
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Is she into any of your kinks?
Hiding this stuff may bite you later….
My advice is to you is to include her in your kink.
Firstly, self pleasure is not wrong while in a relationship. If your partner would be upset to find out, or it’s affecting your relationship that’s a different subject imo, and something you guys should communicate about.