Back in Mojo for a week now. Recently started seeing someone new, everything was largely fine with getting it up during foreplay, but as soon as it came to putting on a condom and penetrative sex my mind goes into overdrive about if it will stay up because of worrying about sensitivity etc and just generally staying hard enough. All went fine without penetrative in the end and she was really supportive and understanding. Unfortunately when this happened with an ex she made me feel terrible about it every time. Does anyone else experience this?
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Definitely experienced this before. For me at least, it’s a bit of a trust thing when you meet a new partner. Until you know you can trust them to understand (at least a bit) feel like it’s natural to worry in our position. Glad you’re new partner was more understanding, hopefully will make the inner dialogue quieter next time
Hello gents’ thought i’d share my concerns too in the hope i can have your advice.
Basically have new partner too and able to get an erection during kissing and foreplay phase but when it comes to penetration it goes down pretty quick and that is not just sometime but everytime) i manage to have it in for abt a minute or even less’ the sensation is just not that great meaning i desensitized my penis during years of hard porn masturbation and i fear whether would i be able to have normal sex again? Meaniny the penetration, during foreplay such as bj i can lose it too’ is just i constantly worry about it failing me so maybe that is the case. But just can’t relax and don’t know how most important. When the excitement in the head stops or is not that high, i lose erection ’ it happens on a regular basis. Took cialis but that didn’t help much. Thanks
I lose sensation when putting on condoms too so have similar things where I lose my erection soon after putting it on and then go inside her. If I use Cialis (I use 20mg) it helps me for getting out of my head, being confident and the sensitivity seems to be better. Currently coupling using cialis and then daily Mojo sessions to hopefully not need the cialis in the future
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I used cialis too but it seems that it does fuckall, still loosing the erection at times but last time didn’t use anything and it was rather better