Are you in a relationship or are you dating?
I’m in a long term relationship, but my partner came to terms with the fact that he is asexual, so i haven’t had partnered sex in nearly a decade. We’ve tried to resolve the schism it created in our relationship, but i think the only possibilities are opening the relationship or ending it. Needless to say, my sexual self-esteem has bottomed out and my performance anxiety around being with a new partner is through the roof.