Hi all!
I’m new here. I’ve had a pretty mundane sexlife up until about a year ago. I’ve had depression and mild hpb for awhile but I didn’t notice any ed issues until last year. All of my partners have been super supportive and it usually works out o e way or another. I usually get hard in the foreplay but then lose it right before entry. I get so worried that I’m not going to be able to penetrate that I lose things right away and then we have to reset. I’m lucky to be around supportive sexual partners but I’m worried about disappointing them. This app seems to be pretty dope so far.
Best of luck to yall! Feel free to commiserate if you’d like.
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Hey, I’m new here too and have had a similar experience. It feels like we’re in a rush after I get hard to get into the right position and sometimes we have to start over. It’s frustrating but I’m confident and I’m trusting the process so far. Good luck to you
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So reassuring to read other men going through the same thing. That alone helps normalise it and take some pressure off. Supportive partners are key though and so I’m also very lucky in that respect too.
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I agree there are two components to ED (1) getting hard but then (2) staying hard after insertion
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Which exercise helped you the most with this specific problem?
Same here.
I’ve found that if I lose it during transition, I take a deep breath and call an audible- start rubbing her pussy with Mr. Softee and my fingers. My gf loves it. She’s cum from it several times. This triggers me and I seem to rise to the occasion feeling and knowing she’s cumming from my touch.
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Still dealing with it honestly, but I’ve only just started.