So my main concern when getting intimate with a woman is getting and maintaining a hard erection for the entirety of the sex. To increase my sex drive, I will masturbate and watch porn, but I worry the porn has become under-stimulating and I will not be able to keep my erection when the time comes. Should I be trying to increase my sex drive another way, maybe by reducing the amount of porn I watch or reducing the times I watch it while masturbating? This has been a recent issue that has come up in the recent past and I’d really like to conquer it!
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I’m going through the exact same thing man. My boners have been so flaky I can’t get hard when I want to anymore so to “fix”the issue I end up watching porn and masturbating but I fear it’s a hinderance to the problem i honestly don’t know what to do either
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Well . Don’t watch Porn for a year - lost all desire / instinct. Watch Porn : need more and more exotic porn.
Maybe it’s about moderation .
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I’ve found that not watching porn has had positive effects on my life. When I’m at my most depressed, lonely, and insecure, it’s usually in the middle of a porn bender. When I’m not watching porn regularly, I feel far more confident with women, in my job, and I take risks that have a positive benefit on my life.
I’m not here to tell anymore not to watch porn or masterbate. However, I do think there is something to not doing that stuff, whatever it may be. It’s like it taps into this primal side of you as a man, because it is clear to your body and the universe that the only way you are going to be able to get off, is if it is with a partner.
Guys I’m not even kidding. I literally go up to women that I catch looking at me in public and talk to them without even thinking about it. I’m not gassing myself up, it just happens. Before when I looked at porn, I’d be in those same situations and shrink from the opportunity and challenge.
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Yes I think porn/masturbation is effectively satisfying you so your body doesn’t need it when partner comes along.
I admit my porn use has basically gone to zero with mojo and my masturbation has without porn has gone up - it is so much more satisfying with slow focus in sensation and so on that mojo has encouraged. But I’ve been doing it daily and when partner is keen I’m actually done ! - so I am going to try laying off masturbation a bit - well at least not daily - and see how that goes.
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Thank you OP for asking this