Porn is my downfall

šŸ† Erection issues
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Now 61 and never had any issues getting hard for sex but now finding I can only get hard watching porn, at least I know the mechanics work :blush: but need to cut back on porn, which is easy to say but difficult to do when youā€™ve been watching as much as I have for as long as I have.

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i am 40 and did manige to quit, so its never to late, if you did ask me one month ago is it posible to quit completely i wpuld have sad no, ask me now and i will say never(eaven thoe i still have cravings)

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Cheers thatā€™s encouraging and Iā€™m currently trying once again to quit and am 2 days inā€¦might not sound much but thatā€™s pretty good for meā€¦I was boosted by the revelation that apparently itā€™s not addictiveā€¦who knewā€¦:joy: its certainly felt like it all these years.

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I definitely think I am in your shoes. Iā€™m new to the whole Mojo thing, so please take what I say with a grain of salt. Iā€™ve started tracking when I orgasm, whether it is with my wife or through masturbation. I donā€™t beat myself up if I slip, but I do try to keep myself accountable by keeping track. Iā€™ve found that helps me. So far, itā€™s been over a week since Iā€™ve masturbated but a few days since I was with my wife (and it was sooo much better than usual).

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Iā€™m 41 and would masturbate 5+ times a day to porn. I successfully quit cold turkey 32 days ago. It was a lot harder at the beginning. But it does get easier.

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ā€¦it may not be addictive, but it sure as F becomes a habit!!!
Iā€™m realizing that I need to quit porn and spankin itā€¦
:roll_eyes::man_facepalming:

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Has anything changed for you after quitting it for such period of time?

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But itā€™s also part of the negative tho7ght loopsā€¦Iā€™ve been looking porn since I was abt 12 and in all that time it never interfered with sexā€¦so therefore thatā€™s not the direct reason nowā€¦donā€™t beat yourself up about looking at it that will only make things worse

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I relapsed after abt 5 daysā€¦I know now its not the pornā€¦it can live alongside rl sex itā€™s learning to be present and really take in the sensations during the sex thatā€™s making a big difference

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Thatā€™s so good to hear that something is working for you