Porn is my downfall

desirable-gray-wolverine · October 2, 2024, 7:31pm

Now 61 and never had any issues getting hard for sex but now finding I can only get hard watching porn, at least I know the mechanics work but need to cut back on porn, which is easy to say but difficult to do when you’ve been watching as much as I have for as long as I have.

glorious-jade-chipmunk · October 3, 2024, 7:57am

i am 40 and did manige to quit, so its never to late, if you did ask me one month ago is it posible to quit completely i wpuld have sad no, ask me now and i will say never(eaven thoe i still have cravings)

desirable-gray-wolverine · October 8, 2024, 4:48pm

Cheers that’s encouraging and I’m currently trying once again to quit and am 2 days in…might not sound much but that’s pretty good for me…I was boosted by the revelation that apparently it’s not addictive…who knew… its certainly felt like it all these years.

progressive-rose-shark · October 8, 2024, 6:00pm

I definitely think I am in your shoes. I’m new to the whole Mojo thing, so please take what I say with a grain of salt. I’ve started tracking when I orgasm, whether it is with my wife or through masturbation. I don’t beat myself up if I slip, but I do try to keep myself accountable by keeping track. I’ve found that helps me. So far, it’s been over a week since I’ve masturbated but a few days since I was with my wife (and it was sooo much better than usual).

decent-sapphire-ant · October 10, 2024, 7:42am

I’m 41 and would masturbate 5+ times a day to porn. I successfully quit cold turkey 32 days ago. It was a lot harder at the beginning. But it does get easier.

superb-fuchsia-asp · October 14, 2024, 4:41am

…it may not be addictive, but it sure as F becomes a habit!!!
I’m realizing that I need to quit porn and spankin it…

clean-bronze-silkworm · October 14, 2024, 10:37am

Has anything changed for you after quitting it for such period of time?

desirable-gray-wolverine · October 14, 2024, 5:43pm

But it’s also part of the negative tho7ght loops…I’ve been looking porn since I was abt 12 and in all that time it never interfered with sex…so therefore that’s not the direct reason now…don’t beat yourself up about looking at it that will only make things worse

desirable-gray-wolverine · October 14, 2024, 5:45pm

I relapsed after abt 5 days…I know now its not the porn…it can live alongside rl sex it’s learning to be present and really take in the sensations during the sex that’s making a big difference

desirable-gray-wolverine · October 14, 2024, 5:46pm

That’s so good to hear that something is working for you