Im 19, My girlfriend has been great and doesn’t bring up my lack of ability to perform in the bedroom. And shows me a lot of affection after sex when I do cum early. I’ve been using the app for maybe 3 months but I’ve never been able to put together a freak over 7. I try to use the breathing techniques but I still seem to have the same issues. In the build up to having sex I have a lot of stress. Usually over finishing early and it prevents me from enjoying the moment, I’m in my own head from hours before to hours after.
Hey man, firstly don’t be so hard on yourself, secondly sex is complex and there are many reasons for these things, do you wear a condom? There’s creams to
Numb the area for you, also look into getting really good at foreplay. Take a breath, it sounds like you have an awesome partner, let’s not use language that tears you down, your young and new to this, your not expected to be amazing when you start, my first few times having sex were hilarious embarrassing for myself, don’t let it get you down. Be patient, trust the process I can assure this will work itself out over time.
I’ve noticed that I’m constantly in my own head. “I wish I had a bigger dick to satisfy you better.
“I wish my dick would stay harder- longer for you….”
It’s killing me. I’m
Learning to stop the thoughts, but it’s tough…
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