The past week I can’t get myself hard to masturbate at all. The only erection I get is morning wood. I’m mid 20s and relatively healthy, could this be temporary or is it something to worry about?
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It may well be that you are feeling very stressed about getting hard and the more you are in your head and out of your body - the more difficult it can be to relax and feel aroused. Mojo will really help you understand what is going on and how to gain confidence in getting hard. Good luck : )
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Right there just shows you have a mental block about arousal. I used to not be able even get morning wood, but now I get pretty decent chubs and almost full hard ons. Try the meditation and other sensory exercises to help you relax. If it feels weird at first, good, you’re going in the right direction. Push yourself
I would try masturbating without worrying about whether you get hard. The rosy palm technique is especially good for that. Lube up fully and grip your penis so just the tip is sticking up. Then press down on that soft tip with the palm of you other hand and swirl it around and around. Enjoy the deep pleasure even if you stay totally soft.
That seems to be a mental blocker. I have something similar and i also do not have much desire to have sex because i’m always thinking of the fact that i cannot get hard. I thought it’s low testosteron and it made me even more concerned that i cannot really do anything (i was born like that). After some time, i figured, that it happens when i’m frustrated or anxious. The problem is that it can be easily a vicious circle. In my opinion, you don’t have physical problems because you can have an erection (morning wood). Don’t worry, you are doing the right thing. Just give time to yourself. I wanted to achieve things immediately and it just made things worst.