Not able to Climax all the time

is anyone else experiencing a lack of climaxing once you do have sex? I do not climax everytime, even after some time.

@concrete-silver-dormouse same issue. How long do you usually last before climax?

Intermittent 10-20 minutes and lately not climaxing, lose erection. May come back up in 15 minutes for a bit and still no climax. Out 3-4 times a week we try, I might go only once she can go multiple times per session.

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And how old are you?

Letโ€™s say over 50 and you

@concrete-silver-dormouse over 30

I would love to have this problem lol

@given-gold-cougar to not be able to climax?

Sorry i didnt mean for that to sound like i was belittling it - i was just jealous that you could get it up and last so long that your wife could have multiple orgasms - i have not been as lucky though im sure your problem can be very frustrating too

Yes, I have had this issue for some time, Iโ€™ve realized that it also does have something to do with how Iโ€™m feeling about the woman.

The women who Iโ€™m trying to impress I hardly climax, but the women I donโ€™t really care about impressing make me climax.

I think itโ€™s because I get a bit selfish with the latter, making me very dominant but Iโ€™m too catering for the former, maybe thatโ€™s because Iโ€™m in my head with them. Though the women orgasm multiple times as stated by the gentleman in this thread, so atleast one person leaves happy.

Iโ€™m in my late 20โ€™s, not cohabiting so my lifestyle is more bachelor than some of the married gentlemen in the thread. And not climaxing can be frustrating.