PE is such a frustrating concern when you are overflowing with libido. You feel like going for hours with an attractive counter part only to finish shortly after penetration. Am I the only one who āgainedā PE? I used to be able to last an average amount of time, I do not know the trigger. I am fully aware that its mental and maybe I get sur-excited, but it is a difficult task to deal with. Also, I feel like its unconsciously affecting my confidence in my everyday interactions.
BUT I do not despair and I wish to take Mojo more seriously! If you are also experiencing (even beat that bitch) I am interested in knowing what are your strategies??
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I also feel like I developed PE, I used to be able to last so much longer with way more confidence. I have no idea what happened. But trying mojo out to see if it helps
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Same situation here! Struggling for months with PE, mojo helped me realize itās mental and Iāve applied some tips with some success!
Iāve only had one opportunity (our lives of hectic right now), but I felt fight or flight coming on, stopped, did some box breaths and got back under control and was able to continue for longer than usualā¦ The bad part is this disrupted things for my wife, so she didnāt enjoy the rest.
Improvement is progress and it wonāt be overnight. Keep trying and good luck!
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Suffered with it pretty much most of my life. Always loved thinking deeply about sex and along with porn have basically made the most efficient ejaculation machine. I hate that itās always robbed me of lasting longer in pretty much all over sexual encounters. Tired other courses with no real joy. Will keep on with this as a last ditch attempt before therapy I guess
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Iāve had PE for all of my life and it totally ruined my personal life. I can count one of my hand when o managed to keep longer then a couple of seconds after penetration. It totally made me closed and i didnāt open to girls after a while. It was a bad decision not to take action to get rid of it and a developed ED for me after years. Thanks to Mojo, i have a hope again that itās not me but just my mind and i can have finally a balanced and good sex life.
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PE has been something that comes and goes with me over the years.
Anybody have this experienceā¦ During foreplay I am hard and ready and feel confident about my erection. If my partner and I go straight to sex, Iām usually good and have great sex that lasts a normal amount (10 minutes or so) of time and the orgasm is great. But, when we have extended foreplay (I give her oral or she gives me oral) and I get hard and then lose my erection, when I do get hard again, usually by me stimulating myself, I will insert into my partner and I ejaculate almost immediately.
Pretty frustrating overall but Iām not going to give up on myself.
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Iāve suffered with PE all my sexual life. First time I had sex I actually couldnāt get it up because of nerves and then when I finally did I was done in seconds. The girls I was with was less than supportive, but we were young so I donāt blame her. Either way it set the precedent and have been very anxious about sex ever since. Now cut to 20years later and Iām married with 2 kids, been with my wife for over ten years. Sheās ridiculously hot, and if Iām honest I find her a little intimidating, I sometimes feel that I am no match for her power in the bedroom and so every encounter is coloured with feeling diminished and powerless.
The sex always follows the same path because of my issue. I go down on her, make her cum, then when sheās done I get to stick it in for the 5 or 6 thrusts I can manage before pulling out and cumming on her tummy. We then both look at the mess, I feel so ashamed a she looks disgusted. Sounds like fun right?
Itās weird because we started our relationship as ravenous lovers. We were all over each other, and my issue didnāt matter so much. We would just go again and again. I was younger more confident and thriving in knowledge that I was with this hot girl but I guess over time she stays hot and life perhaps doesnāt go to plan so you start to question why sheās with youā¦ i guess all of this anxiety is then hyper concentrated and on display in the bedroom. Must be a huge turn off for her.
Anyways on the brighter side I am beginning to see myself for who I am and even enjoying it. I found talking to my friends to be a great help, itās like they remind you why youāre great when youāve totally forgotten. This coupled with regular masturbation practices I have seen improvement on my own. But Iām yet to get an opportunity with the wife just yet. Will have to see.
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Do you guys quit porn? I find that it helps
The longest I went without porn was 3 months. For me it gave me clarity that watching porn was more about just knocking one out, instead of enjoying the experience. It allowed me to watch porn in moderation.
Instead of it being a default for an entire session, Iāll use it to āwarm upā and then take my time, instead knocking one out quickly.
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