Its my first day on this app. I used to have proper erections with my girlfriends but then i got married in a arranged marriage and now evertime i get hard but just before penetration or with a thought of penetration i suddenly go soft, even the medicines like viagra and cialis are also not working. I am really worried about my relationship
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I would say definitely a psychological thing . My big advice would be focus on being in the moment how good your wife feels , how much you love her and try hard not to focus 100% on whether you have an erection or not. Also try to box breathe before sex . I’m assuming you’re feeling anxiety. This will help with that. Also remind your inner credit that you have had no issues having sex with your wife in the past and these few failures don’t define what your sex life is going to look like moving forward. You got this I will be praying that you guys can reconnect and have a healthy sex life as a married couple!
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I have the exact same issue! As soon as I get ready to penetrate I go limp. Once I start thinking about it I can get hard again. I just started having this problem a few months ago. I am super frustrated