My gf found out that I was taking cialis

🍆 Erection issues
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Hi there, today my gf found out that I was taking cialis for the past year and is really sad. She feels that I was not honest. I feel horrible too but I’m not confident to engage sex without drugs.

Any advice from someone who has a similar story ?

Thanks !

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Be honest is the best thing at this point, explain how you feel and you didn’t want her to think differently of you, and what your going through

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I just went through exactly this. She was understanding after a bit of shock. I had a bit of a crisis of confidence and lost my erections, but two weeks later she thought I had taken the pill again and I hadn’t! On a journey towards just being the authentic me and accepting how things work without the pills.

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Yep same here, I felt dishonest and she made me feel dishonest as well. But…. I have said to her that I won’t ALWAYS take it, and that I’m working on being authentic in bed,

But my body is mine…. And if I feel I need to take it sometimes I will, therefore I’m not lying.

And… sometimes I take it, sometimes I don’t… this app helped me a huge amount to understand myself and my thought processes.
It’s a game changer.
I’m in charge of my destiny

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Thanks mate !

I liked the way you said, I just need to get in the mindset of being my authentic self.

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I think Breezy-Crimson-Stoat is on the money…being honest and upfront is being authentic…not whether you get some medicinal assistance when you choose to…