I’m struggling with letting go of cialis as I find myself spectating quite a lot. And get disappointed as soon as I’m in the mindframe as I can’t seem to get myself out of it.
My new partner is supportive and we’ve discussed my performance anxiety. However she doesn’t know about the cislis. Should I just ween off them. or go full cold turkey and just keep trying even if I’m not successful for a while.
What’s the best strategy?
Hi, I recently posted a similar question and here’s my story.
I had been using cialis for 1.5 years. It worked as a calming effect, where I had the peace of mind I needed to perform. However, I always felt that I was lying to her.
I knew she would find out eventually, and she did. At first, I felt terrible, because she felt disappointed, but also relieved. She was clearly hurt, but she was very understanding and said that she wished I didn’t use anymore, but that she wouldn’t blame me for using it again.
It made me realise that I want to stop using it and I want to be best version of my authentic self. This means that we will need to find other ways of having sex and deal better with the frustrations of not having an erection.
Which I’m sure won’t be easy, but at least I’m no longer a prisoner of the drug.
Everyone has their own journey, and I hope you manage to make it work with your partner.
You control your destiny, and I advise you to do whatever makes more sense to you now.
Thank you so much for your response, how are you going with it all now?
Yes that’s what I’m worried about too I just put other people above me or more so their perception of me, I care about that too much.
So far so good, I’ve only had sex once with my girlfriend after she found out (which is fortunate because I didn’t feel I was under the effect of cialis) but I’m worried about whether it will work the second time. I’m working on myself, following the Mojo courses and practices such as wax and wane. If I have any success story, I’ll share it here!
So far so good, I’ve only had sex once with my girlfriend after she found out (which is fortunate because I didn’t feel I was under the effect of cialis) but I’m worried about whether it will work the second time. I’m working on myself, following the Mojo courses and practices such as wax and wane. If I have any success story, I’ll share it here!