Morning sex idea suggestion

I have never had the best experience in waking my girl up for sex. She doesn’t like when I grind on her, but she doesn’t always get the hint when I rub and massage her. What other things do you guys do to get your girl started out of sleep? I tried talking to her but it’s been vague responses.

Ask her directly if she’s into morning sex. My wife and I tried it a few times but it’s not really for us… She is also not a morning person at all so it makes sense