Mojo can make you feel like you have more problems than you do

🍆 Erection issues
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I feel like Mojo can make me feel like I have more problems than I actually do. Mainly my issue is when I’m with someone for the first time, that makes me more nervous. After some time I can have normal sex. But Mojo seems to be putting different things in my head which starts to make me feel like I have bigger issues than I actually do. I had sex last time, didn’t do penetration, but I was cycling all the tips from Mojo and ended up not achieving anything. My inner critic feels like it became more active since I started Mojo.

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I think this sometimes. If your issue is simply nerves, I recommend the book “Stop thinking and start living”. It’s very famous and the go to for millions of people. Some very simple tools to help you rid of thoughts that are not beneficial.

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Tbh it’s a multi faceted issue.
Through here I’ve realized I have a death grip, PED, an unhealthy relationship with porn and I spectate…

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I got the same thing: I feel like me ruminating about ED every day has made it a much bigger problem in my head than it has to be. Now i think about it every time i try to have sex and its so much worse

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Yes exactly, getting reminded every day about it makes me think about that all the time, which automatically involves the inner critic

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Yea man. Not sure what the answer is there unforturnately. Im looking into getting a proper psychologist to help

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Thanks for the book recommendation, I’m actually gonna read it

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We got this brother :muscle:

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I actually feel like talking about it makes me feel better… Talking with you guys, with my GF- it all makes me feel a little better.

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For me I felt similar for a while, but what I realized was that I’m more aware of my thoughts and emotions in a way I wasn’t before. As I’ve pushed on I’ve been able to find strategies that work for me and keep my sex life more consistent. Even in those nervous times, I wouldn’t have had any luck but now I feel like I have the tools and am confident in my ability to take on any new situation. This has translated into my day to day life too as I’m confident in other areas of my life.