I began using mojo consistently about 1.5 months ago. I initially got it in July, but thought it was a bunch of fluff, and I wasn’t ready to accept my issues. A couple months ago had met a very amazing girl who was extremely attractive, got along with very well, and who was very compatible with my many kinks and fetishes… I would say that I am a kinkster and prefer more than vanilla.
My mind and brain are far more experienced than my dick though, and I painted a very amazing picture of our first hookup… without opening up about my lack of experience and minor issues with early climax and PED. This led to a bit of a clunky night in the bedroom, which fueled my anxiety and I was hardly able to perform despite having this amazing woman in front of me… several days after I could tell the spark between us was fizzling, and I tried to open up about my experience and issues, but it was too late. For her the spark was gone and she didn’t wish to continue seeing me. I knew I couldn’t allow something like this to happen again so I committed myself to improvement via mojo and other methods
This is a success story, but I can’t give the true picture without the lows beforehand
So fast forward to yesterday, an opportunity falls into my lap for an easy lay. This was the first one since I’d been working on everything. The woman isn’t someone I’m the most attracted to honestly, and she is very vanilla (not an issue but like I’d said I do PREFER more). But I did want to take the opportunity to see if I had made much progress.
I communicated about my potential issues for early climax and PED, and immediately felt a weight lift off of my shoulders… I can’t believe how much that alone helped. She was understanding and just knowing that she was okay with it helped so much. I don’t think I’ve ever really been “present” during sex before because of how much anxiety id have until this time. When we did have sex, I did cum very quickly still the first time, I could feel the anxiety still. But she was ready for it and I knew she was aware so it didn’t become a big issue in my head like before. I was able to get hard again and have sex again, lasting much longer than I ever have (even other times going back to back I would cum quicker). I was ever harder the second time rather than the first, which seems backwards but it’s true, just largely because of less anxiety after getting that first one out of the way and her being okay with it
Overall it was one of my best first sexual experiences with a new woman, If not the best. The things like breath work, focusing on the inner critic and negative thoughts, kegels and communication has all been such a game changer. 1.5 months in on true consistency and I’m happy with where I’m at
Despite my sadness that I couldn’t have been at this level with that other amazing girl… I know I’m going to be even better than where I am now when I find another great one. Sometimes the toughest lessons are the most important ones so I’m thinking she was my lesson that I needed to inspire me to commit. 
I find another one like her
As for now I think I’ll see this other girl for a bit longer to get more experience and comfort, and ofc be open about my intentions so no one gets hurt.
But I wanted to share the highs and lows of my recent journey, things can get better!! Do the exercises, meditate, communicate!!! Make the changes now so you’re ready when that good woman falls into your life!!