So i’ve been with my partner for close to a year now and, at first, I could go for as long as I wanted. As I got more comfortable in the relationship I started losing all control and often blow in the first minute.
I’ve noticed this before and noticed that I could go longer in one-night stands or at the beginning of other relationships.
Has anyone else been through this?
I’m working on the physical aspect of it, but think there is definitely something psychological going on here.
Yes! This is me as well! Once I let my walls down and “fell in love” with my fiancé, things got less spicy in the bedroom for the same reason. The only thing I can think of is I actually care about this girl and it’s not some fling. It still sucks though.
It’s not as bad as it was but definitely annoying. It makes me think that this is completely psychological and about “feelings.” Best of luck!
Yep, this is my exact same situation. I also think it’s both physical and psychological