Will try to resume briefly my situation. I’m 36 and I always been struggling with sex. Childhood traumas, first girlfriend traumas, things just piled up. Stayed then around 8 years mostly alone with almost no sexual experiences. However, I’d say my sexual drive has been always high, too high maybe. Masturbation was my only sexual release, and tons of porn obviously. I developed an addiction before I could even recognize it. Somehow I manage to go from avoiding women to keep exposing myself to these stressful situations like dating and ending up in a bed with someone. Finally I succeeded to overcome my fears in bed with the right partner, but I could feel down there was not as hard as was used to be. I was just not able to keep it hard. Reading around I realized I might have some kind of low libido issue. Too much porn, too much fapping probably even detached me from the beautiful sensations which I’m not able to feel anymore. I just need so much stimulation which just increases the stress, frustration and embarrassment. Forget about using condoms. Nevertheless I experienced full and long sex with few partners in the recent years but only in a later phase of the relationship when enough confidence was built. Marijuana, which for me turned to be some kind of natural viagra, helped my sex life.
But I feel it’s not healthy at all and this built inside of me the belief I can’t have proper sex without it. It’s been one month that I’m am porn and weed free. But it’s so sad I feel I can’t even have a proper erection even on my own without that. But I’m willing to keep trying in the “natural” way and that is why I joined this community. I’ll be keep you posted on my progress, hopefully. Cheers
Good luck! I’m also new to Mojo, and I’ve cut out porn (thank you internet filter… It’s actually been pretty easy!), but I now need to somehow re-sensitise my cock to something other than my right hand… 
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With the things you’ve raised, I think the mojo exercises should help you. Good luck