It does get better guys, just trust the process

When I first joined, I read too many posts on here and just saw tons of guys really struggling with the process. I felt demoralized.

I was very skeptical but also desperate to change something in my life sexually. I will say the process has been great, you really have to out aside your ego and just trust the process. I was doing penis root massage all wrong, now that I’ve changed it I have a raging hard-on the entire 10 mins and feel like I could cum on command but plenty comfy just enjoying it. After the exercise and the daily kegels, I decided to rub one out the old fashion way and it felt like jerking off before I started having these issues. Just felt relaxing and fun, wasn’t chasing the orgasm or worried about when I was going to cum. Definitely a huge step in the right direction.

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Can I ask, in what way did you find you were doing penis root massage wrong, and what did you then do differently?

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I totally agree with this. I’ve learned a lot and stopped masturbating just for the sake of cumming and started doing it for proper pleasure. I don’t rush into masturbating, don’t do it as a “chore”, and don’t use porn while doing it. I feel that this is helping regain sensitivity when I’m in sexual situations. And penis root massage is great for masturbation!

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That’s very encouraging to know. Thanks!

Yeah what do you mean by “doing penis root massage wrong”?