I’m 18 and I’ve been fine till recently I’ve been with a couple girls and I can only get hard and stay hard after taking honey packs idk why when we’re making out I’m hard or even just chilling but when she starts to suck my dick or even when I’m inside her I start to go limp if I can even get hard at all
It sounds like performance anxiety and I’m 19 now having that same problem, I’m my theory is that it comes from a deeper insecurity other then just possible bad performance
If you’ve been watching porn recently or excessive masturbating, or watching too many thirst traps, your mind is associating to that as a pleasure anchor, also the amount of dopamine you get when watching is astronomical vs being with a real person. So your baseline arousal is way too high.
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Sounds like the honey packs are your security… or crutch.
I take rugiet the same way. But I’m 54 and have 20 years of a bad marriage and lots of quick solo/w porn sessions under my belt to unpack…
You’re nervous. Keep using the honey.
But I suggest you focus on getting good with oral and fingers… It’s my experience that once she’s cum 4-5 times from foreplay and my tongue, I’m much more confident and not worried about being a failure….. and I usually am able to get at least hard enough to get inside, then it’s a craps shoot…
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Whoa…is that rly true? Had no idea jacking off to porn shoots your arousal way higher.