I got hard during the exercise but it took some time and my inner critic had plenty to say about that. Also once I got hard and as i went soft again thoughts of not lasting long enough flooded my head.
I was questioning why it was so tough to get hard wondering why my penis wasn’t getting hard from touch
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It’s OK now, but it’s not going to be OK when it happens in front of your wife.
Started getting a bit hard but not fully and inner critic kept going back to thought I have when trying to perform. Told myself we’re working on it and on the right path. Learned more about my body and to not be ashamed of a soft penis.
I had a difficult time not getting at least somewhat erect while touching my penis and spent most of the 10 minutes just watching it.
I noticed that just thinking about going soft during sex actually made my penis get softer.
I actually really enjoyed this. My penis is cool! The way it changes size, the shape, the textures. I wish I’d done this sooner.
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This doesn’t feel good at all. Its small and unattractive soft.
Inner critic tells me if I get hard now it’s because I’m along and I won’t be able to when it matters. But as I tried the exercise it started to feel more normal to not focus on getting hard. Instead it just started to happen when I tried to forget about that goal.
Inner critic was saying that this penis is broken
It was a little strange just just looking at it and touching it with knowing that if it gets hard not to play with it while I was touching it and looking at it did get a little firm but I continued to explore it it never did get fully erect so not sure if it was ok if it was just firm to keep going or should I have let it go soft and was also concerned that why it was not getting fully erect I started to question why but tried to keep relaxed with breathing and keep touching and looking at it
I felt the same mine got firm but not fully erect
after thinking about it why would I not want to get erect during this exercise and since I didn’t get a full erection during this what does that mean
Asking me why I’m doing this. Not gonna actually help when it’s time to go.
Not getting hard, lots of ball skin, fore skin, strange spots
Told me that i should be getting hard when im touching it. I think it impacts performance anxiety because the inner critic tell me i should be getting hard because sex is coming. Or tells me not to lose it because sex is coming.
After 2 minutes roughly I could hear the inner critic saying why isn’t my dick going up it’s a fact my dick is weird. Then I addressed it in my head and blocked it out and said no this is absolutely fine. And then again just before the end my inner critic said 10 minutes without its going hard you have no hope, but I went against it again in my head.
I noticed that if I was on the verge of getting hard, inner critic would start being critical of how quickly it would get soft again.
i was still feeling a defected penis as it did not have any erection. That I should be getting an erection if I was a normal sexual man.
That it should be hard but wasn’t.
Even with a semi-hard penis it was judgemental over that fact
My inner critic kept saying look at how easy it is to get it up when you are by yourself, why can’t you get it up when a beautiful woman is wanting sex too
Questioning my physical response, expecting a reaction. Trying to will an erection despite it being contrary to the instructions of the exercise.