I love the IDEA of sex

I want sex, but I THINK there is a disconnect between the idea and reality.


I agree. Same for me. I think I have an image of myself having sex, like I see me performing well. But then when it happens I don’t meet that standard. Total disconnect. I suppose after 10 years of marriage I’ve become disconnect from the reality of my wife’s body, my body, and the joy of sex, like just being in the moment and enjoying myself.

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