I had a talk with my wife about my issues

Two days ago, my wife and I had a conversation about sex that I wanted to have, and finally, we had it it was a kind of a complaint about leaving her for months without sex and finally I was able to tell her what was going in my head while we having sex and she told how she feels about that she wants more and that it don’t have to be penetration she just want to feel something after our long conversation I feel a bit lief and more confident that I can talk to her about sex

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Nice work man!!!
Was very up front about PED with new gf (7mo).
She’s totally on board and we’ve even discussed how she can actively help and not hurt my inner critic’s fragile ego…
We all want our partner to take charge sometimes.
I suggested she be more bold in bed. Tell me what you want. Talk naughty to me. The other morning I got handsy - she asked me to finger her as she used a toy on herself…:flushed: THAT was super hot. The ask and the act was super hot for me. She came 2x…
She’s also got more bold while going down and during a handy after her neck gets tired… she expressed she wanted to watch me finish myself on her. THEN she proceeded to take the head in her mouth as I was finishing!!!
My point is they mostly want to help and you can help them help you! Ya just gotta find a classy way to bring it up and discuss it with some ideas that may help you get to the next level of recovery.
Good luck fellas!!:four_leaf_clover:

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