Hello all. Not sure if I’m the only one. I cannot come from intercourse, I can with my hand or my wife’s hand or mouth. I feel like less of a man because I can’t in my mind reproduce like a normal human. We are trying for a baby. We have sex but I just get lost in my head and start thinking about how I won’t be able to again and don’t enjoy the moment while I’m inside my wife. It always ends up with my wife touching herself and my using my hand and then going back in at the point of climax. My wife says she still enjoys the sensation and feeling. I just wish I could find a way to be able to do it without needing a hand. Pun instead.
The baby factor is in your head. Prolly tracking cycles, looking for the perfect time…. Sound familiar? Too much pressure on you.
Maybe try not looking at the stats for a few weeks.
Just have fun. Try something naughty or out of the ordinary for you guys. Role play. Talk a lil naughty. Something different. Just to get your mind off oh-my-god,i-need-to-finish-inside!!!