I struggle with understanding how to use this type of masturbation practice during sex. What am I trying to practice? So I can fall back on it at game time?
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Same
It’s insanely disheartening when the guy says at the start “just make yourself hard” like umm if I COULD I wouldn’t BE here. I could not get or maintain more than a barely semi erect penis. I know to be patient and give it time but I just want to be able to get hard on command like that more than anything. Really upsetting when they just say it casually like it’s easy.
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It’s basically achieving levels to be out of your confort zone helping to boost the arousal. I struggle as my thoughts may drift but this excercise keeps it interesting and helps getting more confidence.
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I still don’t really get anything out of this one. I really do try to- but I lose my erection after I start this one!!
I can’t just make myself hard.
Couldn’t stay hard after 1 minute
My erection does fade towards the end but it is a form of mindfulness… just focusing on being in the moment and letting any other thoughts pass on by
It was nice, I got more practice stimulating my own arousal with my imagination instead of porn and it gives me confidence because I can “masturbate” for 10 minutes without cumming, which proves that it’s possible for me! Very exciting
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Managed to stay hard longer but after going soft there was next to no pleasure at all
I couldn’t stay hard for the life of me
I know we’re not supposed to, but I used porn to get hard this time. Otherwise I just wasn’t in the mood. Sometimes this exercise is easy and I’m into it, sometimes it’s just boring.
It’s nice to do something different and wank without porn. I think it’s starting to feel better. I even started to precum this time!
This session felt like more of a slog. I started to lose my erection almost right away and it made for a long 10 minutes.
Was hard to keep hard and focussed this time.
Hard to stay hard, but I notice I’m getting better at feeling sensations there
I was able to stay hard, but not cum this way.
Holy shit I did it! The narrative said think of it as a long distance run it has to have rhythm, be consistent. So I got hard normally, stayed hard longer with the message thing, and now I’m finding that when I need a pick me up, I have a third thing now! I found the rhythm for myself. Really excited to try this with my partner!
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Still not getting the point of this one! Lose the eerevtion and nothing. Hat am I missing??
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I massaged most of the shaft, staying away from the sensitive head. It was pretty good. I was fantasizing some hot thoughts with my gf. Never got super hard, and that’s my issue-
***FYI this would be a lot better if there was an actual woman guiding you, rather than a robotic voice…
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