How do I get out of my own head

During intimacy, I always think about the worst like โ€œwhat if I get soft?โ€ Which triggers me to lose focus and get soft. I also noticed my stamina is low. Anyone whoโ€™s had similar experiences help

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Similar issues here. Kegels seem to be helping though? Iโ€™m getting more spontaneous erections since starting