Hello all.
Checking in to see if anyone here makes your own home brewed porn with your partner(s) as a way to add a little kink and/or visual fantasy-role play to your intimate life together?
My wife and I filmed some of our sexual encounters years years ago, she wasn’t opposed good with have the camera on and not immediately deleting the files. She wasn’t opposed okay we me-her-us using them as a turn on tool. We’ve since lost track of those files-probably deleted from an old phone. They may be floating around the interwebs-god, I hope my kids don’t see them 
Anyway, considering trying this again, with a couple of iPhones going. One to set up as a total pan shot and the other for POV close ups. The two could be edited together for a pretty hot visual.
I know privacy and security are a definite concern these days. We have been together 46 years and wont break up, then release the video out into the wild to get at the other. We would keep the video in a password-protected file/location. It would be just for our enjoyment. Trust me, I don’t want to see us on an amateur channel of YouPorn.
Chime in with your thoughts, advice, for or against.
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Me and my wife took a lot of videos throughout our relationship and I rarely looked at them early on. Now that I have erection issues, I am so happy that I have kept them. I frequently masturbate to them, it gives me a great boost of confidence and has really helped with my issues. It is not as intense as professionally produced porn but feels much better on an emotional level.
We were also thinking of doing it more seriously, filming from multiple angles and stuff. That really sounds like fun 
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I’ve recently deleted the sex videos I had with old partners. There were many. Honestly it was fun to make them because it gave me a sense of validation. The irresistible conqueror. I realized recently that it’s never when I felt good thst I watched those videos. And I never visited the videos of the girl I was currently sleeping with. I caught myself feeling down and needing to feel good about myself: going back to the craziest raunchiest stuff I recorded. With the thickest baddest girl so I can feel I was worth a shit again. And when I was jerking it I felt that. And soon as I finished I felt pathetic and sad. I want to stop that wiring of associating ejaculation and feelings of shame and guilt so I just stopped. Yes we had sex. And it was great and hot and I miss it. But I gotta feel good by myself.
I’ve made quite a few videos using cameras from different angles and I’ve edited them with my gf that I have now. It’s fun and they’re definitely fun to watch. I enjoy doing it with her. We’ve discussed different settings and lighting and angles as well when she’s in the mood to do it. I’ve even imagined filming her with other men but we’ve never done that. I definitely love watching her in different views.
I can also say I can relate to this as well cuz I used to jerk off when I was stressed. I’m trying to cut that habit out and it does help with sexual issues.