Help me narrow down my problem…

Straight male with erection issues over a long period. So, I want to make sure I’m really clear on what my issue is. Although I do have some pre-game nerves ahead of sex once I’m in I really don’t have any sense of inner critic at all. In fact the opposite: I feel pretty sex god like when I’m penetrating and enjoying it.

But my erection isn’t that firm. I can get very hard in advance on an idea that takes my fancy (real, imagined, potential, porn, whatever). But once I start to actually penetrate my hard on softens.I can keep going and it often feels good to me but my partner tells me it loses a fair amount of hardness. When that happens I might be able to get back by focusing on my prior idea but that feels like I’m climbing further into my head instead of out of it. So all I can believe it come down to is something related to penis sensitivity. Are the sensate exercises the answer? Answers on a postcard please …

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Pelvic floor and sensate is what i have found helpful. Elections are harder and more sensitive since doing those.

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