Brand new here and sceptical but giving it a try. I’m just wondering if anyone has had my specific problem and actually seen an improvement using this app?
So, I’ve had years where sex just doesn’t interest me. I want it to, and I can get a semi if a girl puts her mouth down there (often even climax). But I don’t find it exciting in any way whatsoever. Sometimes I might even describe sex as gross.
Is this solvable? It’s tough because I’m dating multiple women (they know the score), but I can’t keep it up long enough or firm enough to please a single one of them. I don’t even look at sexy models or women on a night out and think “Oh wow!” like my friends do. I can genuinely just turn around and think about something else.
Would love to hear your thoughts 
Do you wish you had more desire and libido? If it’s something you’re genuinely concerned about, maybe talk to your doctor and see about testing your testosterone levels. There’s also in “simmering” like one of the exercises on Mojo. But you have to want to get your desire and libido up. If you’re content, then that’s fine. But if you want to feel something, try following the app and really commit to it wholeheartedly, check with your doctor, etc.
I definitely do want to be hornoer, for want of a better word. I’ve had my testosterone checked and I have normal levels, the doctor doesn’t know what else to do. Feeling pretty helpless but will commit to Mojo 100% and hope for the best.
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I’m also seeing a sex therapist, which I’m finding it tremendously insightful. You can maybe see about finding a sex therapist, too, if you feel motivated to solve this. Figure out why sex is not something terribly interesting to you, why you might even go so far to characterize it as gross in some instances. That’s what a sex therapist can help with.
Otherwise, if you wanted to live peacefully a monk-ish life and we’re quite content, then I’d advise to go with what you’re already feeling which might be a natural aptitude toward such a lifestyle choice and/or spiritual pursuit. There’s nothing wrong with either.
Maybe you’re on the spectrum of being demi-sexual, that sex as an intimate act is only meaningful to you as an activity you wish to participate in when you find someone you have a strong emotional connection with.
But anyway, I encourage you to dig deep, brother. You can figure it out 
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Exercising physically helped me tremendously.
Might you be bicurious- bisexual? Try and experience with a man and see if that ignites something?
Good theory and I used to fantasise… had my first and last gay experience this year. It was not for me 
These are fascinating ideas. I want to see a sex therapist but they’re very expensive here so I’m giving Mojo the fill try first.
Demisexual… worth a thought for sure.
May I ask how seeing a therapist has helped?
Well done for giving it a try! At least you know now.