I’ve never had a problem with masturbating and getting hard on my own. I’ve never had issues with not lasting long enough, as I used to always last too long a couple of years ago. I thought it was a good thing when I started being able to ejaculate faster, as maybe i was more turned on and things were better.
Since then, I’ve now found it difficult to stay hard. I get hard in the first place easily but if it’s in a car it’s just not going to happen even if my hormones are on a ten, and in the bedroom the smallest noise or even the headboard hitting the wall puts me off completely. I always have that little voice in my head saying that she is enjoying it so much but just wait until I start going soft again then she’ll be annoyed. It’s got me completely frustrated. I just want to be able to see things through every time, not just sometimes, and i don’t want it to get worse.