Getting up and staying up

I’ve never had a problem with masturbating and getting hard on my own. I’ve never had issues with not lasting long enough, as I used to always last too long a couple of years ago. I thought it was a good thing when I started being able to ejaculate faster, as maybe i was more turned on and things were better.

Since then, I’ve now found it difficult to stay hard. I get hard in the first place easily but if it’s in a car it’s just not going to happen even if my hormones are on a ten, and in the bedroom the smallest noise or even the headboard hitting the wall puts me off completely. I always have that little voice in my head saying that she is enjoying it so much but just wait until I start going soft again then she’ll be annoyed. It’s got me completely frustrated. I just want to be able to see things through every time, not just sometimes, and i don’t want it to get worse.

I think you hit the nail on the head! You talk about ‘a little voice in your head’. This can so easily happen and once it is there commentating it is really hard to shut it up. Using Mojo will help you get back into your body and out of your head. There are helpful exercises for you to practice on your own, gain confidence, notice the unhelpful thoughts , let them pass through and then fill your head with arousing thoughts that gets you back into the erotic zone and helps you feel confident and enjoy sex again.

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