Having no issues with getting hard in foreplay, just as soon as I go for intercourse with my partner I seem to lose my boner. It’s like as soon as the foreplay stops my head just can’t get out of it. It’ll only work after sensual foreplay up until seconds before intercourse. Just wondering if it’s normal or if anyone else has this
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You are not alone. I have this problem as well. It’s one of the main reasons I’m giving the app a go
Likewise. I start panicking about whether I can stay hard and that kills it. I’m trying to be mindful, though, about he lesson that says the stiffness of your dick fluctuates during intercourse. It’s natural and doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. And I’ve experienced that, too, where I go soft but don’t abandon sex and it comes back around. Don’t give up
Everyone here has that issue.
When it happens to me, I try not to panic. I simply rub it on her. She loves it. She’s cum from just that sometimes. The sounds and reaction I get from her is usually enough to get me going again. I also focus on a sexy body part of hers. I have a thing for her feet, and I love her perfect nipples. Plus I try to stay in the moment and be cognizant of the fact that there’s a hot woman laying there with 1 goal- to please me!
Good luck man!!
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Yep, it happens. I’ve learned to be honest, let her know that a break is needed, then pivot to other forms of sensual touch and see if the erection returns. I find it important to be transparent, keep focusing on making her feel good and treasured as this helps her to feel secure, loved, and not going into her own head about why she isn’t turning me on. Cuz she does, always. It’s just that my dick doesn’t always play nice.