First time having sex, porn, finastride, and not getting hard

So last Tuesday I had sex with a girl I really liked and I was not able to get my dick hard. This was my first time having sex. I’ve had a long history of watching porn and currently do take oral finasteride for my hairloss. Since that incident I have not had sex with her and to be honest I am terrified of the same thing happening again. To be honest I am lost. I am a 22 year old dude who is active. Eat healthy. Doesn’t smoke and rarely drinks. When I masturbate (with porn) I have no problem getting hard but when I was with the girl I just couldn’t get hard. This haunts me. Since the incident I have not watched porn or jerked off. And here I am my first day on mojo. Please if anyone has any advice I’ll gladly take it

I had the same thing happen to me my first time, it was just nerves. Use the mental exercises here (inner critic etc) to try to get out of your head. Give it time go slow and you’ll be fine, I was :slight_smile:

Same thing happened to me. I was drunk, nervous and not really attracted to the girl….tried anyway and couldn’t get hard enough….it has affected me to this day (20 years later).

The good thing for you, is at least you can face it head on early, don’t think “it will be right next time”…because your mind will wander, trust me.
Stay off porn, don’t jerk off, and take things nice and slow next time…pay special attention to her…

I started getting ED from the. Pressure to conceive after marriage, it was so frustrating and became a self fulfilling circle.

I started with breathing techniques, sex tips, and now I’m able to get hard and ejaculate regularly.

A lot was inside if my head, bad thinking, easily distracted, couldn’t focus. Also blaming, but i believe I’m on the better side if it

Do the exercises and be patient
It works