Recently, I have met a girl. We have been dating for 2 months. She never had anyone before me and she is also first for me. We had sex 2 times and these 2 times the penetration was painful for her. And I just noticed that I lose firmness when I see that it’s painful for her.
Before her I was watching porn and my erection was always good and strong, but when I had sex first time it just disappeared.
For me its seems that maybe my perception of sex has changed?
Also, when she touches me it helps maintain my erection and make strong but not for long.
Same happens: I see it’s painful for her and erections goes down.
I am 26 yo. Did anyone have something like this before?
What should I do?
It seems like your brain is protecting you from hurting her….
I’m listening to a therapy session in the explore tab that the dude lost his wood the first time he had sex. He was embarrassed!!! His brain
Started to equate sex with shame or embarrassment and shut down his wood.
The therapist is helping him reprogram his brain…