Finally had sex twice last night!

Soo I’m a 31 year old guy! Every new relationship I have troubles getting it up or staying hard the first time. This new relationship is like a month and a half old so pretty new. We tried to have sex 3 times before but first time we were drunk next time really really hungover then the 3rd time I was so in my head about the previous 2 I couldn’t get hard. Last night we had one drink and I remembered that there should be no pressure. I thought of breathing techniques and staying in the moment. Really helped me! Had sex in my truck then back at my house after! Feel like myself again finally lol. Doing these exercises does help and just being in the moment not putting any pressure on yourself really helps! Was alway self conscious because I’m uncircumcised. Even though I’m at the gym a lot the stigma with that always plays in your head a little bit! But talking with your partner and just embracing yourself helped! Excited now to actually have sex instead of seeing it as this daunting thing! Keep up the good work everyone!

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Congrats man !!

Congrats mate

lfg!

Sometimes just need to hear success stories like yours to keep going man. Thank you and congratulations brother

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Keep going dude! Also there’s zero stigma about being uncircumcised. I’m an uncircumcised man and I don’t give a damn what anyone thinks. More power to you.

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Thats awesome man, congrats!

I’m just getting into this program and enjoying it with an open mind
I’ve been doing Kegels on a daily basis
Last few times I had sex with a great partner premature ejaculation spoiled this for both of us
Last night I had fantastic sex with this guy and was in control and we both ejaculated together
I’m feeling so confident now

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Congratulations man! I’ve just had sex twice this weekend too after a week of the app, makes it even more special that my wife and I have been going months long gaps between having sex because of my fear of losing my erection. The app definitely works, you just need to stick to it and be open to changing your mindset.

Happy for you man! I struggle with getting hard with a new partner each time as well. Happy to hear this helped you! It’s my first day on the app so let’s see how it goes.