Been on the app for a few weeks now and I do think itās really helped with my confidence. Iāve also really tried to stay away from porn and have given my penis a break with masturbating. My wife and I have been working on just messing around without penetration recently to connect better and tonight she gave me a handjob and I was rock solid the whole time. Felt amazingš¤
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Sounds like youāre progressing. Iām going to suggest to my wife that we just have some fun without penetration too, just to take the pressure off me and to try to end my spectatoring. I think connection is the key rather than just focusing on the act. Even when we had had penetrative sex, I just donāt enjoy it as much when Iām not rock hard.
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I just had a similar experience today with hand. I know how that kind of breakthrough feels and you should be incredibly proud. Keep going bro!
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Congrats man. I have not tried any of the senate practices with my wife . I have talked about it with her and would love to try it. Our sex is so much different now I used to always start out with giving her oral and this would get me rock hard . Ever since I had the issue with losing my erection itās been different. But lately since Iāve been having success itās like Iām so excited just to get it in we havenāt really been doing foreplay . I would like to get back to that because I really enjoyed going down on her before sex and her going down on me . Itās sound weird but iam nervous about it . Hopefully I can get back there!! keep making progress men!!!
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I just joined and want to learn from all of you.
Its my first day on this app. I used to have proper erections with my girlfriends but then i got married in a arranged marriage and now evertime i get hard but just before penetration or with a thought of penetration i suddenly go soft, even the medicines like viagra and cialis are also not working. I am really worried about my relationship.
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I just joined and I love your ideas and suggestions. Iāll have to try these out.
Same here! Iām a newbie trying to get rid of my performance anxiety. My 4 year relationship is on the verge of crumbling if Iām not able to satisfy my partner to her standing. Sheās been so patient with me and Iāve been putting this over for all these years. Enough is enough.
Hi,
Iāve just joined today. Been thinking about it for awhile. Iāve had problems for a long time now. Getting and keeping hard is a real issue,I really hope this works as my marriage may depend on it.
It sounds as though you and your wife have been making positive changes and relaxing into things - good job!!! ; )